Many marriages are just for sleeping and waking up, raising kids and ageing together till death comes. This is not right. Marriage must be enjoyable and romantic.
By Uju Nwa
Marriages are not just about sleeping and waking up together as a couple; they are about building a lifetime of love, companionship, and shared dreams.
In a world where relationships often seem fleeting and temporary, marriages stand as a testament to the power of commitment and dedication. It’s not just about sharing a bed or a home; it’s about sharing a life filled with joy, laughter, and unwavering support.
Marriages are the foundation on which families are built, creating a safe and nurturing environment for children to grow and thrive. It’s a partnership that goes beyond the surface level, where two individuals come together to create something greater than themselves.
Beyond the romantic notions of love, marriages are also about facing life’s challenges hand in hand. It’s about weathering the storms together, finding strength in each other’s arms, and never giving up on the promise made on that special day.
Marriages are a constant journey of growth and self-discovery. They provide a space for personal development, where two individuals can learn from each other, inspire one another, and become the best versions of themselves. It’s a beautiful dance of compromise, understanding, and unconditional love.
But marriages are not without their ups and downs. They require effort, patience, and a willingness to work through the inevitable obstacles that come along the way. It’s about embracing the imperfections, learning from mistakes, and growing stronger as a couple.
So, let us remember that marriages are not just about sleeping and waking up together as a couple. They are about building a life filled with love, trust, and shared experiences. They are about creating a legacy that will stand the test of time and inspire future generations.
Marriages are a celebration of the human spirit, a testament to the power of love, and a reminder that true happiness lies in the arms of the one we choose to spend our lives with.
1). Many couples hardly kiss and they only hug each other when they receive good news.
_2). The husband only puts food in his wife’s mouth only when she is terminally ill and can’t feed herself and vice versa._
_3). If you see a man opening car door for his wife means the door is faulty._
_4). The only thing that makes an african man touch his wife’s neck is when she complains of fever. He won’t touch it again till the next fever._
_5). The only time he can carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour._
_6). If you see them seated outside at night, don’t think they are romantic. They are only waiting for the smell of insecticide to vanish._
_7). Many wives buy gifts for their husbands only when they are hospitalized._
The only time they race together is when there is danger and everyone is running.
_9). The only time they go for evening stroll is when they want to go and lay a complain to the parents of the person that beat their child._
_10). The only time they bath together is when both are late for work._
_11). The only time a wife looks closely to her husband’s eyes is when he complains of dirt in his eyes._
Unfortunately, Africans feel that any romantic man is being controlled by his wife. They will begin to spread bad rumours. Let us just change today for the better. Let us learn to love one another and enjoy the few days we have on earth together!
THIS GOES TO ALL MARRIED COUPLES.
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